Connect Mode: Relationship Prompts

7 conversation presets designed to deepen your bond. From light daily check-ins to deep vulnerability questions, choose the tone that fits your moment. Thousands of prompts available offline, plus fresh questions tailored to your specific relationship.

Choose Your Conversation Style

Each preset is designed for a different mood and purpose. All prompts are consent-forward with an always-available pass option.

Spark

Notice What's Good Between You

Notice what's good between you. Perfect for daily check-ins and appreciating the small moments together.

Sample Prompts

  • What's one thing I did this week that made you feel loved?
  • What small moment together are you grateful for today?
  • When did you last feel completely present with me?
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Deepen

Go Past the Surface Into What Matters

Go past the surface into what matters. These prompts help you truly know your partner's inner world.

Sample Prompts

  • What's a fear you haven't fully shared with me yet?
  • How has your definition of love changed since we met?
  • What part of yourself do you wish I understood better?
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Play

Get Out of Routine and Into Adventure

Get out of routine and into adventure. Prompts that bring playfulness back into your relationship.

Sample Prompts

  • What spontaneous adventure should we plan for this weekend?
  • If we could learn something new together, what would it be?
  • What's a silly thing we haven't done together yet?
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Closeness

Build Intimacy Without Pressure

Build intimacy without pressure. Safe, consent-forward prompts for emotional and physical closeness.

Sample Prompts

  • What makes you feel most connected to me?
  • How do you like to be comforted when you're stressed?
  • What's something that always makes you feel desired?
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Vision

Talk About Where You're Headed Together

Talk about where you're headed together. Align on values, goals, and the life you want to create.

Sample Prompts

  • What does our life look like in 10 years?
  • What value do you never want us to compromise on?
  • What legacy do you want us to build together?
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Repair

Find Understanding After Conflict, Not Blame

Find understanding after conflict, not blame. These prompts help you move toward each other again.

Sample Prompts

  • What do you need from me right now to feel heard?
  • What's one thing I can do differently next time?
  • How can we prevent this pattern from repeating?
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Dinner Party

Turn Any Gathering Into a Real Conversation

Turn any gathering into a real conversation. Perfect for friends, family, and getting past small talk.

Sample Prompts

  • What's a belief you've changed your mind about?
  • What's the best advice you've ever received?
  • What would your younger self be surprised about?
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Frequently Asked Questions

What makes Connect Mode different from regular conversation cards?

Connect Mode offers 7 distinct presets tailored to different relationship needs and moods. You get fresh prompts tailored to your specific relationship, plus thousands of offline prompts designed with consent and emotional safety in mind.

Which preset should I start with?

We recommend starting with Spark for lighter conversations, especially if you're new to structured relationship prompts. As you get comfortable, try Deepen for more vulnerability, or Play for fun and adventure. There's no wrong choice - you can switch anytime.

Can I use Connect Mode with friends and family?

Absolutely. While many prompts are designed for romantic partners, the app adapts to your relationship type. Select "Friends" or "Family" when setting up, and you'll get appropriate prompts. Dinner Party mode is specifically designed for group settings.

Is there a cost for Connect Mode?

Connect Mode is free. All 7 presets and thousands of offline prompts are included at no cost, with no ads. You can also build up to 3 custom decks tailored to your relationship for free; an optional Premium plan ($4.99/month or $24.99/year) unlocks unlimited custom decks.